Plain language. No surprises.

Kabootar is a private matchmaking service. By applying, you agree to the following.

Membership

Membership is by approval only. We reserve the right to decline or remove anyone from the platform — particularly if we have reason to believe they are not honest, safe, or a good fit for this community.

Honesty

You agree to represent yourself honestly. Misrepresenting your identity, intentions, or personal circumstances is grounds for immediate removal.

Conduct

Every person on this platform has been vetted and trusted. Treat introductions with respect. Any behaviour that makes another member feel unsafe will result in permanent removal — no exceptions.

No guarantees

We do our best to make thoughtful introductions, but we cannot guarantee a match, a relationship, or an outcome. What we can guarantee is that we'll be honest with you throughout.

Fees

Membership fees are non-refundable once the matching process has begun. Details are shared during onboarding.

Last updated April 2026. Questions? concierge@kabootar.club